My Summers in Bulgaria

Lielle was asked at school to make a short presentation in English about herself.  She chose to write about the summers she spends in Bulgaria.  This 6-minute video gives a feel for the simple fun that we enjoy there each year. 

Getting Set for the Summer - Invitation to Share

As anyone reading this blog can see, I haven't been very good at keeping it updated. But that doesn't mean the project is dead - far from it! In less than a month from now we shall be back out in Bulgaria and have plenty to look forward to:

* Hosting a couple of Couchsurfing families
* Hosting a 4-generation meet up of close family members
* Continuing our weekly arts and crafts sessions for local children from Osikovo
* Setting up another weekly arts and crafts session in Voditsa
* Getting dirty in the garden: harvesting, preserving, cooking and eating great food
* Continuing mud-plastering the dining room
* Revamping the outdoor summer kitchen/eating area
* And more, lots lots more....

On our wish list this summer are:

* Teaching Lielle to swim
* Learn to play the ukulele
* Finding a donkey (preferably with little cart) to hire over the summer
* And more, lots lots more...

In March I made a short trip to the village, and although it was a little early for proper gardening, took a chance and sprinkled seeds all over the place.  Since then the weather has been a fertile mix of warmth and rain and I can't wait to see what has sprouted up.

Lielle is looking forward to being reunited with Buster, Dyado (Grandpa) Peter's little dog, who he lets her take care of each time we are there. Dani too is looking forward to getting himself into the various renovation projects, and generally having some time to chill after working the long work-hours he is used to during the rest of the year.

INVITATION: 

To all of our friends who have shared this project with us in the past - we invite you again! To those of you who keep threatening to visit - do it!  To those of you who have never given it a thought - think now! If you have an appreciation of the simple things in life and find joy in sharing your skills and creativity maybe spend some time with us this summer?

We'd love to hear from you - lielle8@yahoo.co.uk


 

Voluntary Simplicity

It's now been 4 months since returning from our sabbatical in Bulgaria. This has been a period of readjustment and reevaluation of our lives. On the face of it we have slipped back into many of our old routines: work, school, etc., but scratch a little under that surface impression and there is clear evidence of a whole mindset change. Trying to define this change has been a bit elusive, but I recently stumbled across a book, and then an amazing website about 'Voluntary Simplicity' and they have helped me sum up where I think we're at right now.

Voluntary simplicity is all about simplifying your lifestyle (though there are probably as many different versions of it as there are people). On the face of it it's all about living your life with less - which can make it sound like deprivation - but it's not. It's more about defining and then balancing your 'needs' against your 'wants'. Getting rid of the clutter in our lives is much more than just material things too - it encompasses other spheres such as emotional clutter.

Anyhow, others have already put this much more eloquently than I have. I definitely recommend checking out this voluntary simplicity website and this inspiring suggestion for a new year's resolution.

Lessons Learnt - Part Two (Keeping Chickens)

As I mentioned in a previous post, sadly all five of our chickens were attacked and killed one night, and we never got a single egg out of any of them... so as you can see, with regard to keeping chickens I still have a lot to learn. When we return to Bulgaria next summer we shall have a serious rethink before we buy some more, bearing in mind one or two things we have learnt from experience.

Our first mistake I think was buying them too young. It's true, they're very cute (and cost a little less), and it's really fun having them around, but if the whole idea is to eventually get eggs out of them then it's worth buying them old enough to (1) tell what sex they are ;-) and (2) get them as close to egg-laying age as possible. Out of our 5 it turned out that only two of them were females!

Another mistake we made was buying them in two batches. First we bought three (a male and two females it later transpired) - and they always got on well together although there was a definite pecking order and the male always got first pickings at the food. A month or two later we bought two more (males as it turned out) and they were always the lowest down in the hierarchy. For a while they all slept together at night, but as the males got bigger there were fights between them so we split them up: the two young ones together, and the three older ones together.

One evening in the half-dark, we mistakenly thought they were all in the right places, so we locked their cages and in the morning we discovered that one of the younger males had inadvertently got locked in with the older male and had been relentlessly pecked by him until he was bleeding from the neck and wing and breathing laboriously. I was pretty sure he was going to die but when I let them out he seemed to perk up and after a day was running around again as usual. But from then on I was careful to make sure that they didn't get locked up together again. A couple of weeks later I found that they were again in the same cage - the little one right in the corner and I couldn't persuade him to come out so I decided not to lock them in that night, but to leave the door open so that the little one would have somewhere to run to if he was attacked. The next morning all was fine. No sign of any squabbles and in fact I had had a bit of a lay-in because they had all got out by themselves at dawn and didn't squawk their heads off as they usually did for me to come and unlock them. So I thought (very mistakenly as it turned out): "Why bother to lock them in at night? They have plenty of places in the open barn to perch and each one can find his own space.... and I won't have to get up at the crack of dawn to let them out." That was the night they got attacked.

The attack began at about 3 am - I heard a terrible squawking from the barn and went out to see what was up. I turned on all the outside lights and saw three of the chickens staring madly, petrified, into the darkness of the back yard. Then silence - I guessed that whatever it was had been frightened off by the lights and I went back to bed. About an hour later: the same terrified screams, only this time I was beginning to feel a bit wary myself and reluctant to go out - maybe I too would be attacked? At 5 am, a third and final round, this time closer to house, and the noise woke up Lielle. Suddenly we both saw the sillouette of an animal on it's hind legs peering in at our bedroom window. "What's that monster?" asked Lielle. "It's only a cat", I reassured her, but in my mind I was questioning what kind of cat is that big that it can peer in at our window.

The next morning we discovered the carnage - three headless chickens and two were missing completely. The neighbours told us they thought it was maybe a skunk or a pine marten, and when we checked out pictures of both on the internet the one that looked most like the 'monster at the window' was the pine marten. You can check what he looks like here and here. He actually looks quite cute, and in most parts of the world their populations are declining and they are a protected species.

Lessons Learnt - Part One (Homeschooling)

Having returned to Israel approximately 6 weeks ago and spending most of the time looking for a new place to live and settling back into work and school, the time has now come to take a good look at the lessons we have learnt from our time away and to incorporate them into our present and future lives.

One of the main things we focussed on during our 14 months away was homeschooling Lielle. It's quite amazing to think how I envisaged it before we left as opposed to how it turned out in reality. I imagined that we would follow a fairly rigid schedule of school-type lessons for approx 2 hours every morning, giving Lielle the opportunity to choose her subjects, but making sure that we included teaching her the necessary basic mathematical, reading, writing and comprehension skills through those subjects that she chose. In actual fact this is the way we taught her for approximately 3 months - and it was very successful. The advantages were:

(1) having a definite routine and spending a good part of the morning in a learning environment,

(2) it was time spent actively doing things together as a family (Dani joined Lielle in learning English, Lielle taught Dani computer skills, together we learnt about nature by working in the garden and helping our neighbours, etc.)

When we left Bulgaria for the UK where we stayed with family over the winter months, it became clear that it wouldn't be so easy to spend so many hours a day taking over the living space or kitchen as we had got used to. I also realised that for these very personalised lessons that we had been giving Lielle I had been putting in a good couple of hours of an evening in preparation, usually working on it after she was in bed. Now we were spending this time with family and it was clear that the homeschooling would take on a different format. At first I have to admit that I felt a little disappointed at the thought of having to abandon a system that seemed to be working so well, but after some consideration we came to the conclusion that we simply needed to be flexible in our approach and to use what resources were available to us without trying to go against the grain. Out of that understanding we ended up using the time to maximum benefit. We decided to use the local library facilities 3 mornings a week. This was time for working quietly through the few Hebrew workbooks that we had brought with us. Lielle was also able to use the computer there for an hour each time. And last, but of course not least, we were able to read - a lot! We took out around 6 books at each visit and Lielle's English really got kick-started. We took out many easy readers and both Dani and Lielle got hooked on Dr. Seuss. We also read longer chapter books and I was amazed at Lielle's level of comprehension. Through the books we learned about characters such as Anna Frank, and what war-time was like in England for the children who were evacuated (as was Lielle's grandad). We read classics such as "The Wind in the Willows" and Nannie and Grandad treated us to a trip to a special museum, based on the book, situated on the banks of the River Thames. We were also treated to a visit to a pantomime (a very British institution .... "oh no it isn't!" .... "oh yes it is!" - lol) - and of course we read the book first - Aladdin. In short, we simply took advantage of being surrounded by English resources to put the emphasis of those three months on learning English and it really paid off.

One of the things that we needed to create for Lielle was the opportunity for meeting up with other children her age. In Bulgaria this had not been too much of a problem since the village children were on school holiday and there were plenty of playmates. The only disadvantage there was that their level of communication was restricted by their lack of a common language. In the UK, where the language was no barrier, the problem was actually finding other children to interact with. To that end Lielle joined two groups, which in addition to providing interaction with others her age which was our primary motivation, also provided her with additional learning experiences: (1) Sunday school (cheder) at the local Jewish congregation, and (2) Heroes Flexischool - which she attended for six hours once a week. The centre offers a friendly, educational and flexible framework for homeschooling families. Lielle participated in hip-hop dance classes, sport, cookery, arts and crafts, drama, animal care and more and looked forward to it every week.

On returning to Bulgaria the homeschooling took on a more flexible approach. Lielle and I spent a lot of time together and most of the learning was done by being available to answer her questions and elaborate on them, and of course continuing with lots of reading. At the same time she seemed to show an aversion to learning maths, but then, like a guardian angel, our neighbour Elly stepped in. She enthusiastically took on the project of teaching Lielle maths several mornings a week and made it so much fun that it almost became one of Lielle's favourite subjects! It just goes to show how important it is that teachers enjoy what they teach and know how to pass that enthusiasm on.

As our time away was drawing to a close I became more and more aware of how Lielle's imminent return to school was a test not only of her abilities but of ours as her teachers. Had she learnt enough? Would she settle back in? We needn't have worried. Although initially a little slower than some of her classmates in reading and writing Hebrew she is catching up fast and is happy, well-adapted and doing well in her tests. She looks back fondly on the special year we spent away and the freedom and flexibility she enjoyed, but has settled in well and goes happily off to school each day. She has learnt so many life skills and has a wonderful appreciation for simplicity. We are so grateful that we created this opportunity.

In summary: The homeschooling experience was different to what we envisaged but nevertheless exceeded all our expectations. Second grade was the perfect timing for this adventure. Lielle already knew what school was like and so had something to compare it to. She had already mastered the basics of reading and writing and had she been in regular school for that year it would have been mainly one of bringing all the class members up to the same level and reinforcing what they had already learnt, thus for us as her educators it was easier material to work with. I have a great respect for people who decide to home educate their children; it is an awesome responsibility but the rewards are many. I am sure that the experience will remain with Lielle for ever and she will always remember that there are many different ways to achieve our goals, and we don't always have to opt for the conventional ones.

Less than a couple of weeks to go....

With less than two weeks to go before we have to be back in Israel there are so many thoughts in my mind: about what we still have left to get done; about what we have learned from all our special experiences of this last year; and of course about how all this will affect our future back home. This last week brought with it a pleasant surprise - a spontaneous visit from a friend back in Israel. We have come to meet up with her in Veliko Turnovo, making one last little two-day holiday break out of our normal village routine (hence the sudden much-appreciated and unexpected use of the internet again)... so here's one more post, and quick teaser of some of the things we've experienced recently. I hope to elaborate on them and add photos once we get back home....
Lielle has celebrated her 8 1/2 birthday - and boy, has she grown up!
Our enormous sunflowers have been the hit of the neighbourhood and anyone whose seen them has asked for seeds.... it looks like next year we are going to greeted by a whole avenue of them up to our house!
Swept up with the wave of bottling and preserving that takes over the country at this time of year, we have been busy preserving 20 kg of delicious ripe tomatoes - various recipes, and already are eager to open them and taste how they came out .... but the intention is that that pleasure will await us when we next return.
On the not so pleasant side, all our chickens got brutally attacked and killed last week .... the theory is that it was probably a skunk who did it..... must be some skunks, these Bulgarian ones!
We have even been inside a UFO! But more about all that when I next get chance.

Computer problems - updates to follow

So much is happening here as our time in Bulgaria winds down to a close... so much to write about and share, but unfortunately this is also the time that my computer battery has said: "Enough!" So, I shall be writing by hand my last memories of this amazing year out of our ordinary lives, and will hopefully update everything when we return. I hope soon to update you about the chickens (and just what 'pecking order' is, in the most literal sense); about the bumper bean harvest; Lielle's 8 1/2 birthday, and more.